curlytop683 (curlytop683) wrote in partners_of_ftm,

So glad this group exists!

When I met my boyfriend, it was before his transition began and even before he was admitting to himself or other people that he was a ftm. I identified as a lesbian at the time, and then during the first few months of our relationship he came out to me as transgender. Since then we have been making a lot of progress, both in our relationship and in his transition- but I am still confused as to what to label myself as. I don't want to call myself a lesbian, because I don't want my boyfriend to think that I am not attracted to him or that I want to be with women. I don't feel comfortable identifying myself as straight either. Am I bisexual? I asked my boyfriend but he doesn't really understand my need to define it. Help! 
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